This workshop will explore the so called "middle column" (its where the magic happens) — the space between the past worries and the future hopes, where transformation can happen.

It will focus on eliciting the protective capacity of family members and wider networks in cases of domestic abuse involving children. The aim is to consider how we use questions to explore the often-overlooked moments between instances of abuse—the unseen, unacknowledged, and missed aspects that go unnoticed while attention is often fixed on patterns of harmful behaviours. By doing so, we can create space for change. While many approaches focus on the strengths of adult victims, we know that creating lasting safety requires a more nuanced and detailed understanding, beyond individual strengths alone.

Participants will engage in crafting questions that promote compassionate, empathetic curiosity within the challenging context of safety planning for both adult and child survivors of domestic abuse.

Penelope Turnell

has 15 years of expertise in assessment and safety planning for domestic abuse cases. As an international speaker and trainer, she has empowered social workers in children’s services globally and serves as a trusted consultant for both government and non-government agencies. Renowned for her ability to analyze complex issues, simplify challenging concepts, and guide practitioners through the daunting context of domestic abuse, Penelope is especially dedicated to ensuring the safety and well-being of children in these high-stakes situations.

Penelope recently developed a safety planning framework that has been adopted in various jurisdictions worldwide. She has also had the privilege of collaborating with subject matter experts on Honour Based Violence, integrating this valuable knowledge into her work.